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How To Know If Your Wife Is Being Unfaithful

Has she been getting more private phone calls lately? Does she leave the room to talk on the phone more than before? When you ask her about a call, does her response seem genuine, or does it seem that she is not being truthful about who is on the other end?

Any change in phone calls including frequency of calls, time of day, tone of voice or a change in text messaging habits could all signify that she is cheating. When she answers the phone, does she drop her volume or suddenly sound as flirtatious as she did when you were first dating? If it seems like her phone habits are changing and you cannot understand the changes, you may be witnessing an affair.

Is she spending more time with her girlfriends than in the past? Are there many evenings out with the girls, when there were almost none just a short while ago? When you ask her who she will be with, does her answer sound sincere?

If any of these scenarios ring a bell, your wife may be going out, but not with the girls. If she was not socializing with her friends with the same frequency that she is now, that is a sign. The gym excuse could be legitimate; it just might be that she is going there more frequently. The problem is that she might be working out more to impress her new love interest. And if she is not in need of her usual shower at night, chances are she is showering after an afternoon of steamy sex, followed by a steamy shower.

Has she stopped making eye contact when answering questions about where she has been and what she has been doing? Does she avoid looking you straight in the eye, when that was not an issue before?

For most people (other than psychopaths and trained spies), it is very challenging to look someone who knows you very well in the eye and tell an out-and-out lie. If your wife is lying to you, there is a very good likelihood that she will be looking anywhere but into your eyes when she Ralph Lauren Outet Online does.

6. Alcohol and Other Substances

Is she drinking outside the home at odd times (daytime) or more than before? Have you suspected drug use, where there was none before? Does she ever smell of cigarettes, even though she doesn’t smoke?

If you are seeing any of these scenarios, there is probably a partner in crime. Sex, drugs and rock and roll all go together, as does alcohol, and could all be indulged in during a tryst. If she smells of cigarettes and she does not smoke, you can bet that he does. You know, almost certainly, that someone else is influencing her choices if these behaviors are taking place when they were not happening before.

Does she want sex less often than usual? Does she seem to just be going through the motions? Is she asking for things you never did before or teaching you new tricks?

Any extreme variances in sexual behavior are possible indications that there is a new influence in her life. Take time to discover if your suspicions are correct. Once your eyes are open to the behavior changes, you will spot them again and again and put the pieces together. From there, it is up to you as to what direction you want to take in saving or ending your relationship. Just know that you need to do what will be most empowering for you in the long run, and that there will be hurt no matter what happens. It is generally devastating when a loved one deceives us, but there are many times when we can weather the storm and come out the other side stronger for having fought for love. And if it seems that you cannot salvage the relationship, then know that you will have learned from this and will be saved from a future of heartache and deceit. Either way, knowing the truth will set you free.

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HuffPost High School welcomes a lively, thoughtful debate in the comment section. One of my colleagues mentioned to me that his wife his wife came inlate one evnening smelling like cologne that he used to wear several years ago. Since Polo Ralph Lauren T-Shirts he did not use this brand anymore, he knew something was up. The next day when she went out  »for a run » he went through her purse and found a pack of condoms. He said that he did not use condoms given the fact that she was on birth control. Needless to say, the S*IT hit the fan and she confessed. They are in the process of getting divorced.

Sad, but I would have ditched the cheating B*itch as well.

Boy that article is so right. I unfortunately had an affair with my secretary. I saw how she deceived her husband. Coming to my house . even if he was home. Using girl friends as an excuse to be out. Shopping and putting purchased items in my closet. Then when she told her hubby that she was shopping, she brought something that was in my closet to show him what she got. Affair lasted 2 years. Cost me my career at the Bank where I worked. And it was all for nothing. She got pregnant and moved to another state, and as far as I know is still married. I always thought if her cheating on her husband is the same thing she would have done to me if we got married. I know the signs. I lived them!